Nobody Knows the Trouble I’ve Seen: The Emotional Lives of Black WomenBlack women give and give and give to the point of emotional exhaustion. Nobody Knows the Trouble Ive Seen lets us know how to break this unhealthy cycle by learning self forgiveness, which through Gods help, leads to self love and the power to say, No, I come first in my life.Mary J. Blige Black women are beautiful, intelligent, and capablebut mostly they embrace being strong. In Nobody Knows the Trouble Ive Seen, clinical psychologist, Dr. Inger